Talk about anything that's on your mind

[gadjo_dilo]

Thanks for the tip. I don't use to look at his face. I'll be more attentive.....Anyway, his possible lips cold sores can't be as dangerous as that kind of herpes the kind of girls you use to go for might have.....

[Tazio]

You shouldn't talk about donkey's missus that way!

[gadjo_dilo]

Why do you have to have interest in your friends missuses? Can't you afford a trip to France or Italy?

[donKey jote]

Don't mind taz gadji, we all know how he really ticks:
http://youtu.be/Eb7zH-UoJYk
All ever since Billy's missus had his balls in that vice...

[gadjo_dilo]

Really???????????????

[Tazio]

Don't mind taz gadji, we all know how he really ticks:

Oh yeah. Maybe you should stop trying to project your preferences on others.

[Tazio]

Can't you afford a trip to France or Italy?

I can afford a trip to Uranus, but I live in So. Cali, plenty of fine McBabes here.

[Jag_Warrior]

That's weird.......Your mother should have known. She had talks with her about her son but haven't ever talked about the girl's life.?.....

Actually, now that you mention it, I'm certain that this has something to do with my mother. She'll tell anyone who will listen that she wants grandkids. My suggestion has been that she adopt a new (younger) son and get him to marry and have kids. Put him in the will and take me out - that would be OK. But with me, there is no chance for a wife or babies (although I do like puppies and kittens). When women I'm going out with start talking marriage and/or babies, that's my signal to move along. I bought one engagement ring a long time ago. I will not be buying another one.

I'm not sure what the girl may have told my mom about her marital/relationship status. Mom has early stage dementia and she wouldn't remember what the girl said or didn't say to her. But it still strikes me as a little odd that she could get away with sending me rather personal texts late in the evening.

As for being flirty, a lot of people do it just for fun or to kill the boredom.( even on this forum you have a significant example )

It was one of her co-workers that told me the girl had a crush on me, because she talked about me so much and asked what people knew about me in her office. They figured it was because the girl had a crush on me. Now we know it was because she was scoping me out for her mom. Which is nice... I guess. Yeah, that's nice. Just need some time to let this soak in.

The right answer is that you really want an adventure. . But take care....I'm sure you're smitten with the young one.....So please don't break the mum's heart.

Not sure about the adventure part. I like things to stay pretty quiet these days. I'm dealing with quite a lot on my plate right now (my mom's health, my work and a new business that I'm looking at) - but the daughter is well aware of that. And yeah... the daughter does have qualities that I really like in a woman - which is why I was OK with her age if it had been her: very bright, well spoken, good sense of humor and hard working. She is definitely a little worker bee. I like that. No woman has enough beauty to cover up for being lazy in my eyes. So, in light of how this has turned out, my hope is that she got those qualities from her mother. I feel a bit more positive about this than when I first posted about this. And no, I never intentionally hurt people who are reaching out to me... unless they turn on me. So, if it doesn't work out, we can just shake hands and go our own way. I have had a LOT of breakups over the years. I think it's silly for adults to make it harder or more unpleasant than it needs to be.

Here's the point where things become more complicated. Can your mum be a part of the plan? Maybe she was like do you know a good woman for my wonderful son?

Oh yeah. I'd say that's the case. Not so much part of the plan, but the reason the girl knew I was single right now.

Hey.......If you really have some properties there's no wonder the girl wants you for her mum. I've noticed that security is that most of the women are looking for in a relationship.

Yeah, that's the dangerous thing though, isn't it? Women who rely too much on that idea (that I could be a source of financial security for them) are really barking up the wrong tree. But the girl saw me shell out a lot of money without thought whenever my mom needed anything at all. In regard to my mother's needs, money is no object. If it tells a girl that I'm financially stable, that's one thing and that's OK. But I have had girls in my past who thought that my money would become "our money" - but it don't work that way in Jag_WarriorLand.

Come on.....This date is exactly what you wanted (and it seems it was your Christmas gift ) although it's the young one you'd like to see. So enjoy it. I'm sorry if my post spoiled the fun ( if there's a thing I could do without ever failing, then always spoiling the fun is.......). I'm just a bit reticent about these things.

I will certainly try to do my part to make it a positive experience for all involved. We're all looking for something good or something that brings some happiness to our lives, aren't we?

But now that you involved us in this story you have the moral obligation to keep us informed about how things develop. And good luck! So when is the date? New year's eve?

I don't know how I feel about it taking place on New Years. But I have a feeling that's what the daughter is putting together. But now, there is also a Downton Abbey season premiere viewing party in our area next Saturday and I might be up for having some fun dressing up for that.

And thanks... I will. Strangely enough, since the death of a very close friend a couple of years ago, I am more likely to share things about myself here than anywhere else. We do have a bird, but he doesn't care to listen to me drone on about myself or my issues. He just turns his back, takes a crap and starts chirping to drown me out.

[Jag_Warrior]

I can afford a trip to Uranus, but I live in So. Cali, plenty of fine McBabes here.

Every time I used to travel through SoCal (Dallas and Houston), I'd see 20 girls a minute that caught my eye. It must be tough to be married (or gay) out there, cause there's so many fine lil cuties running around everywhere. Oh sure, a good many of them aren't worth giving the time of day to - appearances can be deceiving. But they are certainly easy on the eyes.

[gadjo_dilo]

I can afford a trip to Uranus, but I live in So. Cali, plenty of fine McBabes here.

Now, really.......The babes are living next door, still you boast about your french and Italian conquests. Either you have a bad name in your area or you're very interested in ''cultural'' exchanges.

More likely you're a Don Juan.......