At least you're getting some play dawg, and perhaps in the future you could "team" mommy, and her hot daughter. ;)
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At least you're getting some play dawg, and perhaps in the future you could "team" mommy, and her hot daughter. ;)
I guess I'm just being goofy. I mean, what would I do with a girl in her 20's anyway? (Uh, don't answer that - you know I'm a horndog perv). What would we talk about, Taylor Swift? Justin Beeboo? Who knows, maybe she'll be a hot MILF and we'll hit it off. We can talk about cool stuff, like our relationship baggage (I assume she's divorced from Daddy?! Or, maybe she killed him and she's a blackwidow woman) and what common medications we both take. We can compare our 401k balances and what each of us will be getting for Social Security. What rest homes we think would be the best... I think Consumer Reports does a thing on that once a year.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
Alrighty. I'm sufficiently humored (and depressed) now. Let me go lock up my pistols so I don't sleep walk tonight and "accidentally" eat a bullet by my own hands. :D
You're right though; considering what a pill I can be, I should be happy that some woman (any woman) has been pining for me. So I guess I need to stop looking at her daughter's hips too - I don't think quasi-step dads are supposed to do that... or (I'm new at this) are they? :smokin:
No offence but I always wondered why some middle aged or old men think that young girls may have a crush on them.......:devil:
Jag Warrior why did you accept a blind date? Why didn't you exchange a few texts/photos in advance with the mum to see what kind of woman she is? :confused:
What if mother/daughter just want to laugh at you?
What if.......:crazy:
Well, "young" is relative. If I asked a girl out and she said, "OK, but can you drop me off at cheerleading practice first and will you have me home by 10PM curfew?" - I would figure that would be a bit too young for me. As for why some girls in their 20's are attracted to some guys in their 40's+... I guess it depends on the girl and the guy. Older guys (some) have stable jobs, money, cars, homes and may be up for some adventure... and can pay the bill to do it. Attracting a younger (in her 20's) girl isn't really all that hard. But she may be a gold-digger. Some guys are OK with that. I am not. I don't have time for that.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
But in this case, the girl has yet to admit to me that she's married (someone I know who knows her told me yesterday) and she was always (tastefully) flirty and would send me texts up into the night. A girl who sends me texts at 9 or 10PM... well, I don't know that I'd be able to pull that off if I was married. But hey, I went out with a woman in Texas for several months (when I was in town on business) before I found out she was married. She never told me - one of her co-workers clued me in that she was married and even had a kid! So I just stopped calling her. Why did she do that? I guess I used to be kinda fun. And a cheater will cheat if there's some fun to be had.
I have no idea. Caught off guard? Element of surprise? Couldn't bring myself to turn down her offer once she said how much her mom wanted to meet me and how much she wanted me to meet her mom? I really can't tell you why I accepted. But we are going to talk (apparently both she and her mom are iPhone people so we can do a FaceTime chat before we plan the date... which the daughter is apparently doing right now - dammit)Quote:
Jag Warrior why did you accept a blind date? Why didn't you exchange a few texts/photos in advance with the mum to see what kind of woman she is? :confused:
This is possible. But the daughter has been providing care for my mother for some time - that's how we met. And she knows certain things about me and my personality. I am not a bad or mean person (usually). Really I'm not. But I do have the potential and the ability to wreck people's lives if I so desire. She and my mom have had chats about what her dear son has done over the course of his life to right wrongs committed by others. So this girl is aware of what I just did to some treacherous cousins who did something bad and had to be punished for their sins. But she knows that I don't do such things for nothing. And she knows I have a (weird?) sense of Roman Honor. A person has to ask for it... and then I just give them what they've asked for. :) So I don't think that's it, as she and her mother seem like they're intelligent (her mother teaches at a local college). But ya know... who knows? People be crazy these days. Sometimes people have to stick their hand in water to learn that it's wet. And then, The Dude abides. ;)Quote:
What if mother/daughter just want to laugh at you?
With every property that I've bought, with every stock or option I've traded, with every job I've left for another, with every relationship I've begun or ended... yes, what if. That's the adventure in this journey we call "life": what if.Quote:
What if.......:crazy:
I like having the answer (or a good idea) before I ask a question. Here, I don't. And as you can see, it's thrown me off my game and taken me out of my comfort zone. :bonce:
Gadji what is the harm of going on a blind date? It is spontaneous, plus it eliminates the trepidations that can arise through less formal prequalification. He is under no obligation to develop a relationship with this woman. Of course I can understand your concern, after all this is happening in the USA, which means they both will be packing heat, like all Americans do on first dates. One wrong word from either could get the other shot dead in self defense.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Hopefully she is a convicted felon without the right to bear arms. :angel:
That's why I asked. I have limited knowledge of English.. On my mind to have a crush on someone is to have rather intense feelings for someone you've just met or haven't even met yet, implying you don't know much about that person. Usually is related to the charm or personality because those who have a crush can't find a rational reason for that. Well, I might be wrong but that's what I understand of this syntagm (due to the songs or movies where I listened that :devil:).Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
That's weird.......Your mother should have known. She had talks with her about her son but haven't ever talked about the girl's life.?.....Quote:
But in this case, the girl has yet to admit to me that she's married (someone I know who knows her told me yesterday) and she was always (tastefully) flirty and would send me texts up into the night. A girl who sends me texts at 9 or 10PM... well, I don't know that I'd be able to pull that off if I was married.
As for being flirty, a lot of people do it just for fun or to kill the boredom.( even on this forum you have a significant example :devil: )
The right answer is that you really want an adventure. :p. But take care....I'm sure you're smitten with the young one.....So please don't break the mum's heart.Quote:
I have no idea. Caught off guard? Element of surprise? Couldn't bring myself to turn down her offer once she said how much her mom wanted to meet me and how much she wanted me to meet her mom? I really can't tell you why I accepted. But we are going to talk (apparently both she and her mom are iPhone people so we can do a FaceTime chat before we plan the date... which the daughter is apparently doing right now - dammit)
Here's the point where things become more complicated. Can your mum be a part of the plan? Maybe she was like do you know a good woman for my wonderful son?Quote:
This is possible. But the daughter has been providing care for my mother for some time - that's how we met. And she knows certain things about me and my personality.
Hey.......If you really have some properties there's no wonder the girl wants you for her mum. I've noticed that security is that most of the women are looking for in a relationship.Quote:
With every property that I've bought, with every stock or option I've traded, with every job I've left for another, with every relationship I've begun or ended... yes, what if. That's the adventure in this journey we call "life": what if.
ICome on.....This date is exactly what you wanted (and it seems it was your Christmas gift :p) although it's the young one you'd like to see. So enjoy it. I'm sorry if my post spoiled the fun ( if there's a thing I could do without ever failing, then always spoiling the fun is.......). I'm just a bit reticent about these things.Quote:
I like having the answer (or a good idea) before I ask a question. Here, I dony't. And as you can see, it's thrown me off my game and taken me out of my comfort zone. :bonce:
But now that you involved us in this story you have the moral obligation to keep us informed about how things develop. And good luck! So when is the date? New year's eve?
Passionate crimes are not made with guns. You should have known that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
Now seriously, it's the no obligations thing that concerns me. I mean someone may be hurt if he/she is rejected. Well, I know I'm a bit weird about soul things, but still....It's really embarrassing.....I find it painful to say to the other part that you don't intend to see him/her again. But then again....I'm not the usual pragmatic type...
A few months ago the girls in my office tried to set a blind date for a guy who comes sometimes at us with work. I found it weird that someone rather young would ask help from rather unknown people to find a girl. All my colleagues but me were enthusiastic about the idea and thought of a nice girl who now works on another department. I thought she'll be offended but she wasn't, or maybe said she wouldn't mind just for fun. One morning on our way to work she asked me about the guy ( the context was that we had a laugh about the situation). I was honest and said I dislike him at least for the annoying habit to kiss our hands when he enters/leaves the office. Then I said my opinion on such things and she agreed with me, and said she also thought she can't go on a blind date. I suggested another script, like we'll go for a beer after work and the guy would drop in ''accidentally'' and spend some time with us so it wouldn't be like they two met on purpose but spend time and have fun with a group of 6 people.. The rest of colleagues were mad on me saying they should meet in particular. Then I suggested that when the guy would come to our office to send a PM to the girl who'd come as she have a problem with us and see him. We did it and her reaction was ""can't stand him. His trousers are like my dad's''. My colleagues are still angry that she disliked him. I remembered this incident cos yesterday I wanted to send her a message and the last communication with her was ''the groom has come''.:laugh:
OK Gadji, but I still don't see any harm in a dinner or movie date, and an innocent naked ride home. :angel:
Then I wish you as many blind dates as you can get. All with young tramps( sorry, I meant girls ). All happily ending up with naked ridings home and......
:kiss:
.....and I hope your hand kisser associate dude doesn't have cold sores on his lips :kiss: :devil: :angel:
Thanks for the tip. I don't use to look at his face. I'll be more attentive.....Anyway, his possible lips cold sores can't be as dangerous as that kind of herpes the kind of girls you use to go for might have.....
:kiss: :angel:
You shouldn't talk about donkey's missus that way! :wave: :kiss:
Why do you have to have interest in your friends missuses? Can't you afford a trip to France or Italy? :confused:
Don't mind taz gadji, we all know how he really ticks:
http://youtu.be/Eb7zH-UoJYk
All ever since Billy's missus had his balls in that vice...:wave: :andrea: :p
:eek: Really???????????????
Oh yeah. Maybe you should stop trying to project your preferences on others. :wave:Quote:
Originally Posted by donKey jote
I can afford a trip to Uranus, but I live in So. Cali, plenty of fine McBabes here. :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Actually, now that you mention it, I'm certain that this has something to do with my mother. She'll tell anyone who will listen that she wants grandkids. My suggestion has been that she adopt a new (younger) son and get him to marry and have kids. Put him in the will and take me out - that would be OK. But with me, there is no chance for a wife or babies (although I do like puppies and kittens). When women I'm going out with start talking marriage and/or babies, that's my signal to move along. I bought one engagement ring a long time ago. I will not be buying another one.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
I'm not sure what the girl may have told my mom about her marital/relationship status. Mom has early stage dementia and she wouldn't remember what the girl said or didn't say to her. But it still strikes me as a little odd that she could get away with sending me rather personal texts late in the evening.
It was one of her co-workers that told me the girl had a crush on me, because she talked about me so much and asked what people knew about me in her office. They figured it was because the girl had a crush on me. Now we know it was because she was scoping me out for her mom. Which is nice... I guess. Yeah, that's nice. Just need some time to let this soak in.Quote:
As for being flirty, a lot of people do it just for fun or to kill the boredom.( even on this forum you have a significant example :devil: )
Not sure about the adventure part. I like things to stay pretty quiet these days. I'm dealing with quite a lot on my plate right now (my mom's health, my work and a new business that I'm looking at) - but the daughter is well aware of that. And yeah... the daughter does have qualities that I really like in a woman - which is why I was OK with her age if it had been her: very bright, well spoken, good sense of humor and hard working. She is definitely a little worker bee. I like that. No woman has enough beauty to cover up for being lazy in my eyes. So, in light of how this has turned out, my hope is that she got those qualities from her mother. I feel a bit more positive about this than when I first posted about this. And no, I never intentionally hurt people who are reaching out to me... unless they turn on me. So, if it doesn't work out, we can just shake hands and go our own way. I have had a LOT of breakups over the years. I think it's silly for adults to make it harder or more unpleasant than it needs to be.Quote:
The right answer is that you really want an adventure. :p. But take care....I'm sure you're smitten with the young one.....So please don't break the mum's heart.
Oh yeah. I'd say that's the case. Not so much part of the plan, but the reason the girl knew I was single right now.Quote:
Here's the point where things become more complicated. Can your mum be a part of the plan? Maybe she was like do you know a good woman for my wonderful son?
Yeah, that's the dangerous thing though, isn't it? Women who rely too much on that idea (that I could be a source of financial security for them) are really barking up the wrong tree. But the girl saw me shell out a lot of money without thought whenever my mom needed anything at all. In regard to my mother's needs, money is no object. If it tells a girl that I'm financially stable, that's one thing and that's OK. But I have had girls in my past who thought that my money would become "our money" - but it don't work that way in Jag_WarriorLand. :)Quote:
Hey.......If you really have some properties there's no wonder the girl wants you for her mum. I've noticed that security is that most of the women are looking for in a relationship.
I will certainly try to do my part to make it a positive experience for all involved. We're all looking for something good or something that brings some happiness to our lives, aren't we?Quote:
Come on.....This date is exactly what you wanted (and it seems it was your Christmas gift :p) although it's the young one you'd like to see. So enjoy it. I'm sorry if my post spoiled the fun ( if there's a thing I could do without ever failing, then always spoiling the fun is.......). I'm just a bit reticent about these things.
I don't know how I feel about it taking place on New Years. But I have a feeling that's what the daughter is putting together. But now, there is also a Downton Abbey season premiere viewing party in our area next Saturday and I might be up for having some fun dressing up for that.Quote:
But now that you involved us in this story you have the moral obligation to keep us informed about how things develop. And good luck! So when is the date? New year's eve?
And thanks... I will. Strangely enough, since the death of a very close friend a couple of years ago, I am more likely to share things about myself here than anywhere else. We do have a bird, but he doesn't care to listen to me drone on about myself or my issues. He just turns his back, takes a crap and starts chirping to drown me out.
Every time I used to travel through SoCal (Dallas and Houston), I'd see 20 girls a minute that caught my eye. It must be tough to be married (or gay) out there, cause there's so many fine lil cuties running around everywhere. Oh sure, a good many of them aren't worth giving the time of day to - appearances can be deceiving. But they are certainly easy on the eyes. :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
Now, really.......The babes are living next door, still you boast about your french and Italian conquests. Either you have a bad name in your area or you're very interested in ''cultural'' exchanges.:devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
More likely you're a Don Juan.......:angel:
Steady tiger :kiss: :bandit:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
Really Gadji, I've mentioned that I have attractive looking fb friends from southern Europe, not conquests! ;)
:eek: I also have the bad habit to send messages late in the night. Now I'll be more careful. For the record, in case any of the forumers received a pm from me later than 10.p.m. I don't have a crush on you.......Quote:
But it still strikes me as a little odd that she could get away with sending me rather personal texts late in the evening.
Hey Jag, why did she asked her coworkers about you? How could they know you? :confused:
No offence, but if she did so much research there's something rotten about the story. I understand that she could meet you, think you're a nice person, talk a bit to you and have a confirmation about that, but asking around.....It's like she's hunting you which would be really nice if she hadn't any interest. Matter of fact I dislike this kind of people who'll do everything for such things......
:eek: I bet you're a kind of boss somewhere.....The annoying type that terrorise employees. :angryfire:Quote:
No woman has enough beauty to cover up for being lazy in my eyes.
No offence again but from what I read in your posts you'll never be happy with a girl.Quote:
I will certainly try to do my part to make it a positive experience for all involved. We're all looking for something good or something that brings some happiness to our lives, aren'twe?
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Really, Taz......Then why did you send them the lower part of your narcissistic picture? :laugh: :sailor:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
....to put the fear of Jehovah into them! :eek: :angel:
Give me a break......:laugh:
You can't fool me. :devil:
I'm not trying to! :)
BTW, I'm texting with her right now.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
And if you send Tazio text messages late into the evening and ask us lots & lots of questions about him, none of us will tell him anything. We promise. Yeah. Big ol' promise. Your secret is safe with us! ;)
One of her co-workers is related to someone who knows me extremely well. I consider this person a friend and his relation passed it on that I was being asked about and talked about quite frequently.Quote:
Hey Jag, why did she asked her coworkers about you? How could they know you? :confused:
No offence, but if she did so much research there's something rotten about the story. I understand that she could meet you, think you're a nice person, talk a bit to you and have a confirmation about that, but asking around.....It's like she's hunting you which would be really nice if she hadn't any interest. Matter of fact I dislike this kind of people who'll do everything for such things......
To be honest, since the daughter really is a sweet and dedicated person (in her work), I truly want to find her mom to be a good person and maybe someone I can have as a friend, even if we don't strike up a romance. To be honest, I could do with a (real) friend more than a gal-pal right now. Not to be crude, but finding a girl to spend some days (or nights) with isn't so hard. But striking up a friendship that's genuine is rather difficult - especially when you're like me and have major trust issues.
No, I actually side with the employees more often than not. But yes, I do terrorize management from time to time. Most of the issues I deal with can be traced to bad management, not bad employees. I have never fired anyone in my life. Everyone who has had to walk out the door has fired themselves the way I see it. From my long-winded posts, you can probably tell that I supply people with more than enough information on what is expected of them and what is a no-no. Too many no-no's and you go poof! and disappear. :smash: But that's not my fault.Quote:
:eek: I bet you're a kind of boss somewhere.....The annoying type that terrorise employees. :angryfire
Well, probably not - at least not a human girl. I may get another cat though. Cats are cool. They "get me". A dog would be OK too, but sort of like human girls, dogs bark too much. :DQuote:
No offence again but from what I read in your posts you'll never be happy with a girl.
Not always. I've made this surprising and slightly unpleasant discovery recently. In November we picked a cat in the countryside just to save her from freezing to death. Initially, she had been the softest and gentlest creature in the world who was infinitely thankful to us for rescuing her. On top of that she would eat anything we gave her. In just a few weeks she became a nosy and arrogant beast who's busy making a difficult choice between tuna and sausage. On top of that, she's not particularly smart. That's the most difficult part with us. While none of us in the family is really humble or low maintenance, we take pride in the fact that we can back up our ambitions with some proper software installed in our heads and charming personalities (that's right!). The kitty doesn't have much of that and always provides fresh material for jokes about a redneck who's made it to the big city.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
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Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
Once again, I don't want to spoil the party..... but isn't it the right time for the mum to make her entrance into this telenovela? Why is the girl still texting you ?( unless you were the one who started :devil:). She should pass the ball to the mum as both of you agreed to date......
I don't send him messages. I'm an educated person who understands he's probably too busy with his army of fb tramps ( sorry, I meant babes) to be bothered with sterile talk.:devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
More than that, I'm not the kind to talk in private with forumers about other forumers. It's a horrible thing....
I don't do such things even in real life. When I like somebody nobody would know. Even the person I like... ha, ha....
But how did she know that? I can't see myself going to work and saying Do any of you know mr. X? What kind of person is he?Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
Are you talking only about the work with your mother? Are you sure she's so dedicated? What if she does it only to get under your skin? I mean I have a girl at work who if you don't know her well could also seem to be dedicated to her work. More than that she knows to sell her image and really, everybody from outside thinks she's hard working and the best of our group. But we know her well and know it's a facade, that she has a certain target and doesn't work as much as she pretends.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
Then it's simple.....Why can't you be just friends with the daughter? You have to admit that it's the daughter that you like....She's married..So what? What's wrong to have a male friend?Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
Still you trust that girl who's obviously sly...Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
Yeah.....They say that love is blind.....:p
Typical boss mentality....:sQuote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
Ooops....I was about to say a rude thing. I forgot that I post on a family forum. Maybe because I'm at work....Quote:
Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior
He's Aziz. 90% of the time he's that lazy. The rest of 10% is a sort of horror movie.....Quote:
Originally Posted by Rudy Tamasz
Thanks God he's not mine......
Horrible winter time.....
Hate it! Hate it! Hate it! :s
Gadji it looks great ! :andrea:
@Jag Warrior
I have an interesting idea for your date. Tell her you'd like to watch together a movie. Then go to her home ( for coffee of course ) and watch together
http://streaming.ratmovie.com/play.php?movie=0125022
At least you'll test her sense of humour......
:angel:
.....or this movie, it ought to scare the bejezzus out of her. Of course their is always the chance that she may be really into it ;)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOZPRm5BW0Y
Jealous :(Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
I'm with you gadji we are having a real cold snap, and it is supposed to dip into the low 40's this week!Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
me too..Quote:
Originally Posted by steveaki13
its only 7.5 deg C here at night...and I doubt it will go below 6C this winter :s
I bet this is the movie that your women play to you on the first date. :angel:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tazio
Last day at work...Mmmmm.....Whiskey....:beer:....mmmmm......w ine........:beer:....mmmm...pizza......
:crazy: :crazy: