Crazy Girls

[millencolin]

oi it could be worse.... at least you dont have a crazy stalker lady hasseling you AND your friends... im the friend in this dilemma. mate of mine had 'relations' with this girl, but saw nothing coming out of it so he broke it off. and she blew a fuse! she waits outside his house follows him places, and then lashes out at us cause we are his mate! She somehow manages to find out what nightclubs we go to and finds us, yells random **** and she usually ends up getting kicked out of the club. nutcase


But sir hobbes, as for your little dilemma... my guess, let hey go...

why are women so farkin complicated?

[LeonBrooke]

I've come to the conclusion that women are complete mysteries, and that men will never understand them.

However, I also think that women understand men perfectly. Therefore everything a woman does that confuses a man is either deliberate or it's because she doesn't realise that the man doesn't understand her. LotusElise, what do you think?

[Drew]

IMHO, alot of things that go wrong in the world are because of misunderstandings. Be clear and hope for the best, I suppose

[Dazz9908]

I've been Married for over 17yrs now ( that long??!!), and Still can't work out what the hells going on in my beloved's head???

Guys, always remember having sex with a female "friend" can screw-up a good friendship.

So true, gets very awkward and eventually distant. Keep friendly, Stay as you always are, but time will tell. Obviously she play through the prospect in her mind, She trusts you, Don't change be the man that you are.

[viper_man]

The title of the thread says it all really.

Women are ****ing nuts. Fact.

If I ever meet a bloke who can figure out what really goes on in a womans head Ill eat not only my hat but my entire wardrobe.


Sir Hobbes, just go with the flow.

[Bebee]

I've come to the conclusion that women are complete mysteries, and that men will never understand them.

However, I also think that women understand men perfectly. Therefore everything a woman does that confuses a man is either deliberate or it's because she doesn't realise that the man doesn't understand her. LotusElise, what do you think?

For the record, I don't understand men perfectly at all!

[Erki]

Gee, what about the simplest(not the easiest I guess though) solution: talk to her? If you don't like to be played with, you should do it, or what do you think?

[Daniel]

She might just be a person who enjoys more physical affection with her friends sometimes. I've known both men and women like this - more women than men, but one male friend in particular is like this a lot of the time.

Kudos to you for not forcing the issue though.

I agree

Always always always always get to know someone for at least a few months before thinking of them as anything more than just a friend. You usually get a better understanding of what they're like and after a few months you can tell whether they're girlfriend material and you'll be boyfriend material

Don't disobey this rule and you'll be OK most times

[Sir_Hobbes]

Gee, what about the simplest(not the easiest I guess though) solution: talk to her? If you don't like to be played with, you should do it, or what do you think?

Thats another thing, we've had a few conversations about what we are or could be and such.

The first time was after we went out for a few weeks and she said that she just got out of something and didn't want anything so I totally respected that.

Inbetween the first and second conversation she cuddled with me first and had me stay over first, I didn't make any moves.

The second time was about a month ago when she said that she said she would be single for three months to herself so we would probably be more in the new year.

It was between the second and third conversation that she kissed me first, I totaly didn't initate it. I was about to leave and went to her room to get my jacket and she totally made the move.

Then a couple weeks ago after we made out for a while she said that she didn't want a boyfriend and needed to "figure out who she is" because she's always been in a relationship and the kicker was she said if she wanted a boyfriend it'd be me. A few days later she kissed me again. And the next day she kissed me good by when I droped her off at the airport so she could go back to her home town.

Now things have seemed to go backwards since she got back from her hometown about a week ago.

[LeonBrooke]

For the record, I don't understand men perfectly at all!

Well that's good to hear, I suppose. But are you the rule or the exception in this respect??

Gee, what about the simplest(not the easiest I guess though) solution: talk to her? If you don't like to be played with, you should do it, or what do you think?

Sigh, Erki, if only life were that easy...