In my opinion, love is what it is. If you feel it, as defined by you, then you know what it is. Therefore, one can know what love is at any age. The definition may change as their experience changes, but it's always love.
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In my opinion, love is what it is. If you feel it, as defined by you, then you know what it is. Therefore, one can know what love is at any age. The definition may change as their experience changes, but it's always love.
Yea I suppose your right there.
306, I kinda know how you feel now.
Bezza doesn't fancy many girls properly, beyond a night out, as he tends to find the ones without personality! However, met one girl in February. Been chasing her since then, not rebuffed but not accepted, so in limbo - says she's going on holiday and when she comes back will be able to come out with me, long story on why she couldn't see me prior to hol but anyway - comes back from hol and yes you've guessed it - met a guy and is now going out with him. She's in Preston and he's in Newcastle so how on earth that will work I don't know, but anyways I'm gutted, annoyed and frustrated. What a great way to start the week.
Just have that feeling of "can't be bothered" its hard to explain. I can't be bothered going to work, going out with friends or talking to anyone! I don't even want to go out and actually meet someone else. Whats this feeling because it was different the other times, I was the one who ended the relationship.
Wheres Andrea when you need her, I could with her advice!!!
Yup, I think everyone goes thru that.Quote:
Just have that feeling of "can't be bothered" its hard to explain. I can't be bothered going to work, going out with friends or talking to anyone! I don't even want to go out and actually meet someone else. Whats this feeling because it was different the other times, I was the one who ended the relationship.
That's what I went through mate.
I know the feeling. I managed to lose 2 kilos after my first girlfriend dumped me :mark: Total lack of motivation to do anything whatsoever.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bezza
Time heals all though and I've found someone nicer who isn't a cow and doesn't have any hidden reasons for going out with me!
Cossie, what you went through sucks. Been there, done that, I know exactly how it can physically knock the "@#$&" of you, but you will survive. Do what many have said and move on. If a woman can dump you when she knows you are crazy about her, she isn't for you.
I am of the theory that there is a perfect match for everyone. Mrs. Oaf must be Oily's match, because anyone who could live with his insanity much be in love. I know my better half must love me, because we have gone through the mill together and nothing has changed. For this love thing to work, it has to be reciprocated. Until you get a woman who is as nuts about you as you are about her, keep your powder dry and maybe stay away.
I know, you are 18 so this sounds like a lot of old guy BS but trust me, you' ll know....and then that first love will be a fond memory in time, but you will be glad you got past it....You don't forget, you just learn....