Relationship advice

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Originally Posted by tfp

Unless youre a women ;)

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And even then only if she can do it several times in a row. No fakes accepted.

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Originally Posted by Jag_Warrior

The one common fault that women tend to have is thinking that they can change men. And that false hope tends to lead to hard feelings sooner or later. Best to just accept people as they are, IMO.

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Don't be so sure. You probably haven't met a real one. Yet. :laugh:

Great thread! And a good lesson for the future. It was really interesting to find out how guys treat the "corazón" issues. :devil:

I'm yet to meet a woman who doesn't think they can change their man over a period of time. Its a common topic of conversation amongst men, but I suppose in most cases we do need changing a little. I said earlier that my wife had failed to change me in any way but on reflection you realise its the subtle things. I think in a lot of cases men will bite their tongue and do things they don't necessarily enjoy because their woman can withhold certain duties that us men can't do without lol. In some ways we are complete saps, but there are also instances where we win the psychological game even if our good ladies don't know anything about it. ;)

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Originally Posted by henners88

I think in a lot of cases men will bite their tongue and do things they don't necessarily enjoy because their woman can withhold certain duties that us men can't do without lol.

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What, the ironing? :p

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Originally Posted by EuroTroll

What, the ironing? :p

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No I cook and wash up everyday. My wife goes into melt down if you ask her to cook something lol

I enjoy cooking so she does all the washing and ironing. I think I have the better deal. I wouldn't tell her that though or she'd be on a cookery course pretty sharpish ;)

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Originally Posted by henners88

No I cook and wash up everyday. ;)

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You're a treasure at one's house....

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Originally Posted by henners88

My wife goes into melt down if you ask her to cook something lol

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She already won my symphaty.

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Originally Posted by henners88

I enjoy cooking so she does all the washing and ironing. I think I have the better deal. I wouldn't tell her that though or she'd be on a cookery course pretty sharpish ;)

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Nah... You're still under her slipper, remember?

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Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo

Nah... You're still under her slipper, remember?

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Nah, the slipper falls off her thumb before it even touches me.

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Originally Posted by henners88

I'm yet to meet a woman who doesn't think they can change their man over a period of time. Its a common topic of conversation amongst men, but I suppose in most cases we do need changing a little. I said earlier that my wife had failed to change me in any way but on reflection you realise its the subtle things. I think in a lot of cases men will bite their tongue and do things they don't necessarily enjoy because their woman can withhold certain duties that us men can't do without lol. In some ways we are complete saps, but there are also instances where we win the psychological game even if our good ladies don't know anything about it. ;)

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Well we know who wears the pants in your house Henners. I'm not going to name names, but I think she is winning the overall war! :)

Long term relationships are about compromise at times, and doing things just for the sake of your mate is one way to "sacrifice" and show affection IMO.

Adapting to each other is always good. But changing a person who is over 16? Forget it, it's way to late.