you got hit by facebook too eh race? :p
go on, show us the manual for men :s ailor:
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you got hit by facebook too eh race? :p
go on, show us the manual for men :s ailor:
No can do.
I can't even understand myself.....
I didn't get that one on Facebook. Must be a breezy read - if you have a telescope!
I was trying to be polite! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Garry Walker
You will never know for sure cause you didn't try anything. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Final update:
Met her earlier on tonight and we had a chat. We were chatting for a few minutes and she brought it up and said that she doesn't feel "that way" anymore. She said she doesn't know why but she freaked out a little. I told her that was no problem and I felt that she wasn't ready to date from her ten year relationshp yet. She said that I was probably right because as soon as she felt anything she was like RUN!!! So that's it. So we're going to stay friends as we get along great and there's no hard feelings there on either of our parts.
Thanks to everyone for the great advice on this thread. Appreciate all your help.
Better luck next time! :)
PS: And remember, give girls air to feel free, let them go when they want, and if they will feel like it they will come back to you, if they don't no problem, there is enough of them anyway! ;)
Agree dude. I've always been good at pulling girls for one night, never been very good at relationships but it's also very rare I meet a girl I'm interested in seeing again afterwards. I've learned a lot over the past few months though. Life is a development curve, just like an F1 car!Quote:
Originally Posted by ioan
Amen brother, Amen to THATQuote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Ioane, I've never thought you're so good in giving advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by ioan
Next time I know who I'll ask for help. :laugh:
Grrr...Another relationship that was a big fīssss.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Looks like our specialists in dating matters should improve their receips. :devil:
It wasn't our fault! :devil: It was the girl's fault, as usual. ;) :pQuote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
We all gave very good advice. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Oh well Knight you learn from things like this and you'll just be a bit wiser next time around. Get back out there have a little fun and you never know what's around the corner. You often meet the right person when you're not even looking :)
With a right guidance of the Knight the girl's redoubt would have been conquered !( I was about to say the girl would have been fooled :laugh: )Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
Nope. The girl just went crazy, I tells ya. :devil: :p The guidance was perfect - it could not have been better! :devil: :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
I know when the problem started: nobody adviced the Knight about the movie he should watch with a girl. :devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
He didn't ask! :devil: We certainly would have told him that Die Hard was a bad idea. You don't watch action films with chicks! They fall asleep. :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Wonder about your suggestion... :laugh:
(please don't say Child's pose :devil: :devil::devil :)
Child's pose? I don't even know what that is. :cheese:Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
But my suggestion would have been some romantic comedy. "Always the romantic comedy," a wise fellow once told me. "It'll be worth suffering through it, you'll see." :D
My signature?Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
Yeah. I bet that would have made the Knight sleeping. :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
Ah, ok! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Maybe, and maybe not. ;) The girl's purring might have kept him awake. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
No, no no. She wanted to go and see Die Hard. She loves those movies. I really didn't because I felt it would be a crap movie. It happened before then though. She just freaked out. 8 months out of a ten year relationship, she's clearly not ready yet and she admitted the same last night to me. All is well anyway. I feel I handled the situation pretty well overall.Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
That was the moment when you should have dumped her.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Alright mate. We're just jesting here now, anyway. ;) Just a little post-mortem jesting. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
I'm glad you don't have any regrets. They're the worst... :erm:
Good luck with the next one! ;) :beer:
Or go back to your old flame, be a nice guy and help her to get over depression.Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
( Now I am really serious ).
I wouldn't advise that at all. It sounds like both parties wanted the outcome and its best to leave it in the past.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
The romantic in me (???!!?!?) says that they don't know what they're missing....Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
( I'm also serious ).
I'm not sure about the romance part... only BK knows what might or might not be with his former girlfriend. But I find your advice very sound still. If nothing else she will appreciate that someone cares about her enough to help her through her dark days. And regardless of how she copes (or doesn't) with her depression he will get the satisfaction of knowing he has made an honest attempt to help a fellow human through very tough times. Helping someone in need without any other motives can be a very powerful thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
I can genuinely say that my former girlfriend and I have no hope of getting back together. I've discussed this with many people, including my own personal counselor, and the general consensus is that I have done more than enough. She's an adult and must take responsibility for herself at some point. Even without the depression there were too many issues there, all of which are things she must over come herself. I did everything I could for her. Any reach out must be done by her now, but even if she did contact me, it is definitely too late for her and I. I don't have the energy to go through all that again.Quote:
Originally Posted by airshifter
Yep, you said it. Tis in the past now. I get the feeling you're the only one, along with ioan and airshifter, that have read everything I wrote in this thread correctly Henners ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
:confused: :rolleyes: Can't believe you talked such things with your counselor....Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
I think you still love her. Otherwise why did you asked us about the new relationship? It was like you felt guilty.
Don't know about airshifter but Ioan and Henners are definitely maestros in matters of "corazón". :devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Yeah I still love her but it's over with. No I don't feel guilty. I was asking for advice on the new flame because I know myself I'm probably not in the best place to trust my own advice right now. Nothing more to it really.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
I got the impression he wanted to move on but was asking whether or not 'we' felt it was too soon as an outside opinion. I've been in relationships and finished them, but felt I didn't want to jump into anything too soon afterwards. Sometimes you don't quite know if you are ready but are tempted to try things out, only to find you are slap bang in the middle of a relationship again. My advice to the knight is to enjoy the next 6 months and keep things casual. You don't always have to be knee deep in clunge to enjoy yourself and time off from the fairer species might do him some good. That's good advice but he is a bloke like many of us and the first sniff is usually hard to resist lol. It all works out in the end I like to say ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
LOL This is so true. I get a sniff of it and I'm off. It's one of those things, our weakness I guess ;) And yes, you've got it bang on as usually. That's exactly the purpose of this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
OK Maestro, if you say so.....
However I can't swallow this:
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Originally Posted by Henners
Who do you thing you're fooling? :devil:
Fooling with what?Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
You're a very young chap who's with his wife for 9 years ( according to this thread ). Wonder when you had time for so many relationships if you didn't jump for a new one after a break up.Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
Given that people generally start dating around the 16 mark, if you do the math he had about 7 years to experience this before he met his wife :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo