Your first true love?

Ah but are you sure you were in Love with her though? You get all sorts of funny feelings when your in love, you constantly miss them even if they're in the next room (well that's how I felt) you wanted them by yourside 24/7 you missed every little thing that they did, and you got a funny feeling inside every time you hear their voice on the phone or when you see them again.

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Originally Posted by SEATFreak

I haven't the faintest idea how to approach girls or what to do next. I don't find the fact I am a no-hoper who just ain't good enough funny.

The worst part about being a total no-hoper is the fact I wasn't able to get close to my first love at school to ask her out.

But surely, even it is something of a consolation prize, though I couldn't ask her out, the very fact I did have feelings for her in the first place surely makes her my offical first love?

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I simply thought the words were funny. I wasn't laughing at you.......

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Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth

Ah but are you sure you were in Love with her though? You get all sorts of funny feelings when your in love, you constantly miss them even if they're in the next room (well that's how I felt) you wanted them by yourside 24/7 you missed every little thing that they did, and you got a funny feeling inside every time you hear their voice on the phone or when you see them again.

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Believe me you can get that feeling about anything. I got teary when my PoS Audi got taken away and I absolutely despised that car. Emotions are ****ing irritating things and do not necessarily indicate what you're actually thinking.

Well tis how I felt about Sarah :p :

Fair enough :) not trying to say otherwise. You'll learn though that emotions are not logical things. For example you can be in an abusive relationship and be aware of it but do nothing about it :crazy:

Well I hope that doesn't happen :erm:

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Originally Posted by Daniel

Fair enough :) not trying to say otherwise. You'll learn though that emotions are not logical things. For example you can be in an abusive relationship and be aware of it but do nothing about it :crazy:

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I'm in an abusve relationship Dan.
Last American Independence Day Mrs Oaf came home early and caught me watching "Seahunt" with me strides round me ankles and going at it full pelt with a Lay Zee Boy vacuum pump.
It gives me no pleasure whatsoever to inform you that I was killed instantly.

I remember I was unceremoniously dumped by a raven haired beauty whom I adored. I was devastated, but a man older and wiser than me cheered me up with the following words of wisdom.

"Its better to have loved and lost...than to have spent your whole life w+nking" and its true!

Don't know what to say... love is a tricky thing. I think you will get over it but the memories will always be there.

Please, just don't do what a friend of my brother's as done since...god... at least 10 years:

After a girl that he was dating for a year or so dumped him he decided never to wear anything but black.
Oh, my wife told me that when she broke up with someone she used to listen to a bunch of love songs and cry all of the emotions out. Then she was ready to face the world... :erm: can't say if that would work with a man though...

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Originally Posted by SEATFreak

I haven't the faintest idea how to approach girls or what to do next. I don't find the fact I am a no-hoper who just ain't good enough funny.

The worst part about being a total no-hoper is the fact I wasn't able to get close to my first love at school to ask her out.

But surely, even it is something of a consolation prize, though I couldn't ask her out, the very fact I did have feelings for her in the first place surely makes her my offical first love?

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Don't be so hard on yourself SEATFreak. Remeber like BJB's sig says there's nothing a few pints cannot do. ;)

Dan try seeing things from his point of view. I've had times when I felt unwanted and often took offense when it wasn't ment. Thankfully I've gotten over it now. :)