Strewth, what goes on in your loo then to be that bad???? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
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Strewth, what goes on in your loo then to be that bad???? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
I just cleaned our toilets, at the request of 'er upstairs :dozey:
Make sure to take some headache pills to bed then tonight to fend off the excuses........... ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by donKey jote
I clean the bathroom and toilet and bathroom in our gaff as I am a bit OCD when it comes to cleaning.Quote:
Originally Posted by donKey jote
Generally, first thing I do when we go on holiday is clean the bath and loo......
I only clean the bath when I get in it...
Nice! :pQuote:
Originally Posted by donKey jote
lol they never get bad, its just the thought! Our new house we are buying has two bathrooms upstairs and a toilet downstairs. Its not a big house by any means but seems to have 3 of the buggers! I won't be cleaning any of those I can tell you :DQuote:
Originally Posted by SGWilko
Update: We went to cinema. Collected her, smell of drink off her, didn't mind that. She started falling asleep during cinema. ****e movie, even made me sleepy, A good day to Die Hard. Dropped her back straight after. Kissed her good night and went home. Sent her a text today with a picture relevant to something she put on Facebook and got "That's funny. Thanks." back.
Beginning to think she may be in a worse place than I suspected originally. Thoughts?
dump her.. next ! :)
Have you thought about working as an agony donKey? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by donKey jote
TBK, I say never mind. ;) We all have a day off once in a while. :erm:
Don't know man. I'm not getting good vibes. I'm off to London for the weekend anyway, so rock and roll!Quote:
Originally Posted by EuroTroll
I might miss the season opener of the F1 actually :( Hopefully my buddy will have it on his TV... Fingers crossed!
You shouldn't see every women you get in bed with as a serious option for the rest of your life.
Just live the moment, now it's her, tomorrow it will be someone else.
make sure you dump her before you shag her and make things worse !Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Oh... This sounds familiar.... :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Hmmm seems strange that she's gone a little cold on you mate. Perhaps things were moving too fast for her and she realised? My advice would be to not text her for a few days, cut the contact. When you get back just send her a friendly text but not too friendly, if you know what I mean? If she has a go at you or responds with 'where the hell have you been!?' You'll know she at least cares you haven't been in touch. You can explain then that you didn't get good vibes before you went away and see how she answers. I've never been one to chase in situations like this as games are never a good start to a relationship IMO. I hope you sort it out mate and perhaps you've read things wrong, but also hope she hasn't had her fun with you and decided to cool things down. I think the worse thing in this situation is the fact you're missing the season opener this weekend!! Just kidding :pQuote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Enjoy the weekend anyway, and have fun knowing you haven't really started anything serious here yet. ;)
Not strange at all. Of course she's got cold when he took her to a cinema and let her fall asleep. She definitely had other expectations. :devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
Wrap up warm, it's a bit parky here right now!Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
:eek: Bunny boiler alert!Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
I'm still trying to figure out where women learn all these tactics they have. I'm sure they learn it at grade school level, and it seems to be a subject with lengthy procedures involved. I just never understood how the sneak all the women out of class without the boys knowing it. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
If you can interpret her actions into man friendly language, TBK might have a better idea of his next step. I'm sure there is some secret law that would scorn you as a woman if you did so though!
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Originally Posted by ioan
Believe me I don't but I've always liked her since we worked together so it was a different situation to the norm.
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Originally Posted by donKey jote
I'd probably feel better if I got the leg over to be honest ;)
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Originally Posted by henners88
Thanks Henners. That was what I think thinking myself. I don't get women like this. I've been in this situation before and normally I'd have just said good luck but, as you know, I've known her for a few years.
Anyway, I'm going to take this advice and not contact her until next week. Next move is on her, if I receive nothing, I'll have to meet her again anyway to get a DVD I loaned her and after that it's good luck!
I am going to try my best to see the season opener. Worst comes to worst I'll have to catch the replay on the Sunday evening. I just hope I haven't heard the results by then on the radio or something :p
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Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
She the one who wanted to go to the cinema. I didn't want to go there. Diabolical movie.
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Originally Posted by airshifter
A conversion tool? Great idea! :D It's not the first time I've experienced this kind of behavior from women. They act like this and call men *******s afterwards. Hmmmmm :p
Come on....What better excuse when you don't want to go out than saying you're sick...Maybe TBK's Dulcineea also asked some advice on a forum and some old foxes learnt her it's not good to be so approachable from the beginning. :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by airshifter
Talking about women tactics, none of us can beat our pal Henners when it comes to wooing a girl. :devil:
BTW, have anybody noticed that the poor girl had to have a drink before meeting him? Maybe she needed it for courage. :devil:
Ha! Maybe she wanted you to take advantage of the darkness. And you? Left her to fall asleep....Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
May I ask what film have you seen? I bet it was a great one.
A good day to die hard. Awful.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
I get the impression you haven't read the entire thread correctly.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Good god! Haven't you seen the posters at the entrance?Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Pictures & Photos from Die Hard: Belle journée pour mourir - IMDb
Your girl is great. If I look at mr. Willis gun I suppose it made a lot of noise. Still she wasn't disturbed....
Possible. My poor english and my exhausted neuron use to play tricks. But I understood that on weekend you couldn't see her cos she was sick, then i said it sounds familiar as many girls would pretend this when they don't want to see smb., then airshifter was intrigued by women tactics, then I etc.etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Never mind....
This would be a possibility except she asked me to go, so it wouldn't really make sense :)Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
sure... that's why she also had booze on her breath.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Hey...Quote:
Originally Posted by donKey jote
Otherwise she would stay shy. :devil:
Someone with Aspergers could have picked a better night out than watching the new Die Hard movie! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
I don't claim to be an expert but have experience of a situation similar to this one. I've also had friends who have gone through tricky situations too.Quote:
Originally Posted by gadjo_dilo
Yeah good luck I'm sure you'll get your answer by next week. You obviously like her so hopefully she'll be all over you again if she thinks you've cooled things off after a few days. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Agree with cutting contact for a week or so, but don't do any explanations about vibes and so, that will scare her away again as it will seem that you are getting to close sentimentally.Quote:
Originally Posted by henners88
More reason to do something else, more interesting, in the dark.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Many things women do really do not make sense to men. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Yeah you could be right not to mention about the bad vibes. Perhaps the knight should just say about giving her a bit of space but mention about doing something soon if she fancies it? Gage her reaction from that :)Quote:
Originally Posted by ioan
I fixed your "weeks/months" dilemma in your original post for you :up:Quote:
Originally Posted by The Black Knight
Now for the main topic. Man its been so long since I've had to worry about the dating scene I'm not sure if I even know what it's like anymore. I married my best friend 14 years ago, been with her for 16 total, and have known her for 21 years. When I first met her she was married to a guy that worked for me part time and who was a fulltime US Marine at the time.
I never gave Slorydn2 a thought back then. She was married, pregnant with her second child, and I had a few girls I was seeing then (ohhh to be 21 again) :D
He ended up getting out of the Marine Corps, and he quit working for me and they moved away.
I subsequently got a job in our local hospital in the Radiology Dept as a transporter (I would pick up the patient from their room and bring them down to Radiology for whatever procedure they were having and bring them back). I was working a double shift one day and got sent up to pediatrics to pick up a child with a very familiar sounding name. I walk in to PEDs and who do I run into? Her. It was her kid that had pneumonia. I brought him down and she came with us. While he was having his tests run we stepped outside and chatted for a while and that was that. I didn't see her again for several years.
Then one day when I was pulling duty as a volunteer EMT a gorgeous looking girl with 2 young children pops in to the building and asks for an application as she was going to school to be an EMT herself. I look up from my paperwork and its her! I handed her the application, we talked for a while and then she left. She got accepted (we ended up sponsoring her so she didn't have to pay for her certification classes) so we got to see each other, alot. I really dug her as a friend, even back in the very beginning, but that was all, and besides she was married, right? That's when she drops the bombshell on me. They were getting a divorce! Now I had been through a few bad relationships up to that point myself and I was starting to get to that point that I would never have a really solid long term relationship, and like I said before, I really dug this girl as a friend, she had helped me through some bad times before with other girls, giving me advice from a girls point of view, helping me to intepret the "language of women".
I wasn't about to screw that up, I was just going to be friends with her and that was that. It wasn't until one of the other girls in our squad cornered me one night and told me that if I didn't ask Slorydn2 out that she was going to kill me as she was tired of hearing Slo2 whine "what was wrong with her, why wouldn't I ask her out?"
SO I did. We made magic from the get-go. It didn't take me long to realize from that point on that she was the "one". Even with all that though we still had our ups and downs through the dating period, we both had "security and rebound issues" to deal with. we got through those and here we are, 16 years later here we are with 3 kids (2 of them adults now), working for the same agency (I am a 911 center supervisor and she is a Detention Officer) and we are as happy as can be-broke, but happy.
Sorry I got so long winded with my story, I just decided to throw it out there to make a point. You will know if she is the one or not, and yes, it is possible to hook up with a former friend/acquaintance and make it work. I guess the only advice I can give, which will echo what others before me have said, is to give her, no give both of you space apart from each other from time to time, and don't pressure her into anything-in fact don't feel pressured to do anything. Time will tell if both of you are right for each other and then you will know. Take it one day at a time, and most of all, have fun :up:
Now if you will excuse me I must go and give myself points for being so long winded, LOL
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Originally Posted by henners88
Thanks. We'll see what happens :) For now I'm just going to chill in London with my buddies. She's off my radar for now.
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Originally Posted by ioan
I agree with that! :)
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Originally Posted by ioan
That would not have worked, tempted though as I was! :D
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Originally Posted by henners88
Yeah, I'm not going to mention bad vibes to her at all. That would be a bad idea. I'm happy to give space or even give her a few months to sort herself out and touch base with her then if both of us are still single and if not then that's life.
Thanks :)Quote:
Originally Posted by slorydn1
Absolutely. When you are in your 20s, live for the moment (try to score as much as possible).Quote:
Originally Posted by ioan
You meant "most" of course.Quote:
Originally Posted by ioan
Any thing I can do to help.
Here is a very helpful book.
Unfortunately I only have it in Spanish.
It's called: "How to Understand Women"
Buena suerte.
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