First, Democrat and democracy aren't the same thing. One is a political philosophy the other is a political party that may or may not have many of the tenents of the democratic philosophy.
Second, the one pole that I could find shows significant support in the US for the missle defense shield. It is a bit old, and I didn't do too much searching for a newer one, so maybe things have changed a bit.
http://www.prnewswire.co.uk/cgi/news/release?id=203835
Third, Obama doesn't have the overall support of the US anymore.
http://www.rasmussenreports.com/publ..._tracking_poll
Fourth, Liberals do their fair share of bullying as well. Just look at how often people opposed to health care are called racists. For them it's "my way or you're a racist". I'm not saying that that justifies some of the things that are said on either side of the eisle, just that ALL of them do it. The "bullying" is not just a Conservative trait.