Here's the thing.
Felipe is still employed by, and under contract to, Scuderia Ferrari.
He should therefore do what they say.
It is irrelevant what his justification for not wanting to is, it is of no consequence that he would rather not.
He is an employee, not a free man.
It says a lot about the character of Domenicali that this has happened.
It would not have happened on Todts watch.