Originally Posted by henners88
I'm trying to understand for Ben how difficult it must be to not be accepted by others. I suppose you have to try and put yourself in a situation where you could be judged for something you can't help. Imagine if a good friend of yours suddenly admitted out of the blue that he had nothing against you personally, but because you chose a blonde/brunette wife, he didn't quite see you as equal. I know that's a silly example on the face of it but gets the point across. Would it affect your relationship with the friend or would you accept his point of view knowing what he was thinking every time he was in your company? I had a friend at University who I got on with very well, but one evening we discussed this very topic (homosexuality) and he had some very strong views against it. I'm sorry to say it changed my whole opinion of him and our friendship ceased to exist. We still socialise occasionally in the same group and things aren't quite so awkward these days, but I couldn't be close with him again. Some might say I'm being equally intolerant of him and I suppose I am, but we can choose our friends and views can be changed, sexuality can't.