Oh oh we have a ghost among us! :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by oily oaf
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Oh oh we have a ghost among us! :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by oily oaf
Well, if that is the standard that the mere identification and aknowledgement of love is set by then who can say has ever been in love? I mean can you or anyone honestly say that does really happen?Quote:
Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth
What about yearning to be with that person constantly, thinking about that person constantly or experiencing your heart rate increase? Those deffinitely were felt I would say.
With my first love the first two were certainly true, and today I saw for the first time in about 2 months a girl by the name of Lorraine of about my age but a bit taller and a whole lot cuter in appeareance and warmer in nature that I was fond of on my last course that I finished in April. She was involved in getting us on the course on work placements by liasing with employees and giving them a good reference about us. The moment I spotted her in a card shop my heart raced ten to the dozen.
What were those feelings if not love? This Lorraine is happily married so I don't intend to make a move on her anytime in the next millennium (purely platonic we are) but I don't see why I can't be atleast fond of her.
Deep inside I know you were. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Daniel
Well first of all I may be a tee-totaller :) , but thanks for the advice. I believe that is the first time anyone has supported me in that way.Quote:
Originally Posted by RaikkonenRules
TBBH I am in a bit of a mix right now. I do seem to hit it of well with girls once I begin, I mean they aren't exactly repuled by me (I a positive a girl wolf-whistled me in ASDA on monday!), but although I aknowledge I am not butt-ugly (Once I sort out my appearance), I look at the guys that most appeal and I do feel pangs of inferiority.
I like to be of help :up:Quote:
Originally Posted by RaikkonenRules
I can see the funny side of what was said.Quote:
Originally Posted by SEATFreak
Whacking someone you fancy isn't the best plan and it begs the question, what were you going to whack them with? :erm:Quote:
Originally Posted by SEATFreak
:laugh:
it was a mild spring night.... i was at my mates house...
she was short and stocky... brown skin while wearing yellow clothing... and she doesnt cost much on a night out
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2...gold_large.jpg
the moment that sweet sweet amber ale touched my lips i knew i was in love. Sure other beers have come and gone... some are more of the 'fancy' type, others bring out the man in you more by getting you drunk at a faster rate... but i always return to my first beer, and first true love... XXXX Gold
My rythm stick! What else!?Quote:
Originally Posted by Brown, Jon Brow
I take it you have heard of that song "hit me with your rythm stick"? :erm:
I see beer companies have been brainwahing you into advertising. :p :Quote:
Originally Posted by millencolin
Surprised none of the forum Women have commented here!
I don't think they'd have much different to say :mark: Give it time (I know that's easy for everyone else to say) and it'll work out for the best :)
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Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth
I can understand that mate, and i bet it does hurt a lot, it's not nice for anyone, so i can understand the pain you went through, but i'm about 90% sure that won't happen for us two. It just feels so right for both of us, like it's meant to be. we both love each other, and thats FACT.
I'm willing to buy you a pint if it fails but thanks for the warning :p :
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Originally Posted by stevie_gerrard
That's exactly how I felt and how I thought she felt! But ah well, as Daniel said i'll give it time and see how things go.
Oh and i'll hold you to that Pint as your going to Uni ust 30 mins up the road from me :p :
The thing is if she's gone off with someone else so soon (like my first girlfriend did!) then she's not worth thinking about :)Quote:
Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth
Yea I suppose your right, I mean she obviously doesn't give a to$$ about me so why should I care about her? I mean I shredded all the letters and cards she sent me too when I was drunk one night :laugh: Don't regret it either.
That's the spirit! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth
Jenny, Jenny, Jenny. She was well fit at the time and she's even fitter now! In fact, saw her on Saturday and was well impressed I once went out with her! There was still mutual attraction as well.
306 you'll be fine. The solution - a few pints and a dancefloor.
:D :up:Quote:
Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth
wonder what ever happened to Carolina... thanks for opening an old scar :( :p :
That's the plan for my 18th!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bezza
I think it's important to feel the pain, and not to try to bury it.
if you bury it, you'll be burying a part of yourself that might not ever come back out.
just try to live one day at a time and you will slowly start to find things to fill the void. just be careful to find quality things to fill the void and not things like drinking too much or sleeping around or things like that. (well maybe just a bit of both)
but generally speaking those things will just lead to problems down the road. plus no decent girl will want you if you're a drunken strip club loving mess!
you'll love again. if you just focus on taking good care of yourself, and living minute-to-minute, then the rest will take care of itself :)
It began little over a week ago.
I took them out for the 1st time last Monday night. The first impressions were brilliant, a beautiful body, plenty of character the right image, you know everything was there.
Over the course of the last week I've taken them out several more times and every time I approach her my heart rate increases, and every time I touch her the hair on the back of my neck sticks up. :erm:
When it gets down to the physical stuff, she's the best I've had. I'd never enjoyed it as much or got as much pleasure before.
Once more it is worry free, as she came with a 3 year warranty ;)
"Spirito de Punto"
Nice one BJB :p : :laugh:
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Originally Posted by jso1985
The dutch girl?
She got smart... and left you :p
I have to say I've lost count of the number of times people have said things like this to me. It may be true, but it doesn't really make one feel better.Quote:
Originally Posted by Daniel
Yea I agree with you there Leon, but you have to move on at the end of the day don't you?! I've got more important things to worry about anyway like my driving test on Monday :uhoh:
my first and only true love has always been myself, so.....
Just hope it lasts.................. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by FrankenSchwinn
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Originally Posted by FrankenSchwinn
...no room for anyone else :p :
my first true love was a guy called richard orrley this was back in primary school when i wer about 8ish, i loved him to bits until he ended it with me :(
I don't think you can really know what love is at the age of 8/9.
I thought I knew at 18... but I was wrong. :confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by 306 Cosworth
I thought I knew at 28... I think I was still wrong. :(
38..... I think I'd sorted it out. :p
hell no! I was too much for her and she couldn't handle me :p :, anyway Coseth wasn't a love for me...Quote:
Originally Posted by tannat
why the hell do I keep telling my personal life on the simulations forum? :s
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Originally Posted by CharlieJ
Well let me say I deffinetly knew at 16!
In my opinion, love is what it is. If you feel it, as defined by you, then you know what it is. Therefore, one can know what love is at any age. The definition may change as their experience changes, but it's always love.
Yea I suppose your right there.
306, I kinda know how you feel now.
Bezza doesn't fancy many girls properly, beyond a night out, as he tends to find the ones without personality! However, met one girl in February. Been chasing her since then, not rebuffed but not accepted, so in limbo - says she's going on holiday and when she comes back will be able to come out with me, long story on why she couldn't see me prior to hol but anyway - comes back from hol and yes you've guessed it - met a guy and is now going out with him. She's in Preston and he's in Newcastle so how on earth that will work I don't know, but anyways I'm gutted, annoyed and frustrated. What a great way to start the week.
Just have that feeling of "can't be bothered" its hard to explain. I can't be bothered going to work, going out with friends or talking to anyone! I don't even want to go out and actually meet someone else. Whats this feeling because it was different the other times, I was the one who ended the relationship.
Wheres Andrea when you need her, I could with her advice!!!
Yup, I think everyone goes thru that.Quote:
Just have that feeling of "can't be bothered" its hard to explain. I can't be bothered going to work, going out with friends or talking to anyone! I don't even want to go out and actually meet someone else. Whats this feeling because it was different the other times, I was the one who ended the relationship.
That's what I went through mate.
I know the feeling. I managed to lose 2 kilos after my first girlfriend dumped me :mark: Total lack of motivation to do anything whatsoever.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bezza
Time heals all though and I've found someone nicer who isn't a cow and doesn't have any hidden reasons for going out with me!
Cossie, what you went through sucks. Been there, done that, I know exactly how it can physically knock the "@#$&" of you, but you will survive. Do what many have said and move on. If a woman can dump you when she knows you are crazy about her, she isn't for you.
I am of the theory that there is a perfect match for everyone. Mrs. Oaf must be Oily's match, because anyone who could live with his insanity much be in love. I know my better half must love me, because we have gone through the mill together and nothing has changed. For this love thing to work, it has to be reciprocated. Until you get a woman who is as nuts about you as you are about her, keep your powder dry and maybe stay away.
I know, you are 18 so this sounds like a lot of old guy BS but trust me, you' ll know....and then that first love will be a fond memory in time, but you will be glad you got past it....You don't forget, you just learn....