Meeting your ex

[Daniel]

I guess if I do not cross certain lines I am gonna get out of there alive and then not go back again.

You don't know women do you?

Your wife will know, she just will.

[Mark]

My wife isn't aware and doesn't need to be.

After your wife kills you, I'll suspend your forum account. Nice knowing you.

[Rudy Tamasz]

You don't know women do you?

Your wife will know, she just will.

I'm not gonna ... you know what I mean. Just a coffee, I swear.

[Mark]

Just a coffee, I swear.

It will be the most expensive coffee you ever drink.

[Daniel]

I'm not gonna ... you know what I mean. Just a coffee, I swear.

Believe me though. If your wife finds out, even if you were only going for a coffee, in her mind you hid it from her because you wanted to cheat on her and you must die.

Rudy was a simple man, and didn't reckon on a knife in the back from his wife, he'll be very much missed on this forum

[EuroTroll]

Just a coffee, I swear.

In addition to what's been said: I think you might be under the misapprehension that you have control over the situation. Unless you're superman, a woman will eventually get you into her bed if she wants to. Especially an ex because she has hooks in you that you don't even know about.

Women are far stronger and more cunning than men... Honestly, save yourself while you still can. Going back on your word is a very minor sin under the circs and it's a good way to blow her off conclusively.

[EuroTroll]

Unless you're unhappy with your wife... In which case, you know.. go have coffee.

[Brown, Jon Brow]

I'm not gonna ... you know what I mean. Just a coffee, I swear.

I've never managed to hold onto a girlfriend for longer than 3 months and even I know this is a bad idea

[CaptainRaiden]

I don't want drama. Actually I have plenty of that already with my wife and I don't need an overdose. I don't want to go back on my word and cancel the meeting, though. I guess if I do not cross certain lines I am gonna get out of there alive and then not go back again.

My wife isn't aware and doesn't need to be.

So, you say you have plenty of drama with your wife already, AND that she is jealous, plus the way she talked about the "chicks" in your office makes her fit the perfect description of a jealous, possessive wife, and YET you intend to go see your ex. This has DISASTER written all over it. I hope your wife isn't some kung-fu expert, because the massacre would be even more painful.

Believe me, an unhappy ex because of a canceled meeting is a MUCH better scenario than a pissed off wife (if she finds out about it, and she will) for the rest of your life. Imagine this being brought up by her in every little fight from now on. (And that'd be the least of your worries ).

Think from your head about this (the one with the brain in it) . Unless, of course, like studiose said, you are unhappy with how things are, then you're your own boss.

[Daniel]

I've never managed to hold onto a girlfriend for longer than 3 months and even I know this is a bad idea

Longest I had before I met Caroline was 2 months and 9 days 4 years and 6 months now